Published March 17th at 5:26pm - 735 ♥ - 3 min read

[EN/FR] Why I've been absent lately?

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English:

This post is made to tell a little about my life lately which has been unusually difficult. Personal problems, bad health condition, some money issues, I will tell you everything.

Health

As you know, I have a kyphoscoliosis Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (if you want to know more about my sickness, go to the GARD website) and the last month was really painful and hard.

I would have liked to write this article before but my body decided otherwise. My hands were hurting, I was unable to walk sometimes, so much time in bed, close to agony.

But now, It's a little better so I take this opportunity to try to do some things (and write this post.).

Personal

On the personal side, it's not much better. My mother is sick (cancer). My father is sick (two cancers). They have some legal issue with a renovation company that was unscrupulous and ripped them off.

And that's only the first part! I also have small other personal problems. It's the accumulation of small problems that make me not feel very good, but I work on them to solve them.

It will take time, It's a complicated thing but I'll manage to get through all of them.

Money

Last but not the least, I receive a legal instruction from my ex-girlfriend for a story that dates back nine years. It's something I forgot to do but now (about our old apartment), I am being asked for €10000! I will try to solve this case as best as I can but it's still a problem that takes a lot of my energy.

I don't have enough money. I already have small debts I try to pay. It's getting hard, but I'm holding on to the positive parts of my life.

Conclusion

Now you know why I've been absent and why I don't answer as often as I usually do. I'm not giving up, I'm going to continue to give my best and I'm going to do everything I can to get through this "storm."

Thank you very much to be here. HIVE is my little piece of daily happiness. Take care of you and your beloved ones. Have a nice day Hiveans!


Alone man look at the sea

Français :

Cet article est fait pour raconter ma vie ces derniers temps qui a été particulièrement difficile. Problèmes personnels, mauvais état de santé, problèmes d'argent, je vais tout vous raconter

La santé

Comme vous le savez, je suis atteinte du syndrome d'Ehlers-Danlos type cyphoscoliose (si vous voulez en savoir plus sur ma maladie, allez sur le site du GARD), et le mois dernier a été vraiment pénible et difficile.

J'aurais voulu écrire cet article avant, mais mon corps en a décidé autrement. J'avais mal aux mains, j'étais parfois incapable de marcher, je passais beaucoup de temps au lit, au bord de l'agonie.

Mais maintenant, ça va un peu mieux alors j'en profite pour essayer de faire quelques trucs (et d'écrire cet article).

Personnel

D'un point de vue personnel, ça ne va pas beaucoup mieux. Ma mère est malade (cancer). Mon père est malade (deux cancers). Ils ont un problème juridique avec une entreprise de rénovation qui n'a pas eu de scrupules et qui les a arnaqués.

Et ce n'est que le début ! J'ai aussi d'autres petits problèmes personnels. C'est l'accumulation de petits problèmes qui fait que je ne me sens pas très bien, mais je travaille dessus pour les résoudre.

Cela va prendre du temps, c'est compliqué mais j'arriverai à tous les résoudre.

Argent

Enfin et surtout, je reçois une instruction légale venant de mon ex-copine pour une histoire qui remonte à neuf ans. C'est quelque chose que j'ai oublié de faire (à propos de notre ancien appartement), mais maintenant on me demande 10000 € ! Je vais essayer de résoudre cette affaire du mieux que je peux, mais c'est un problème qui me prend beaucoup d'énergie.

Je n'ai pas assez d'argent. J'ai déjà de petites dettes que j'essaie de payer. C'est de plus en plus difficile, mais je m'accroche aux aspects positifs de ma vie.

Conclusion

Vous savez maintenant pourquoi j'ai été absent et pourquoi je ne réponds pas aussi souvent que d'habitude. Je n'abandonne pas, je vais continuer à donner le meilleur de moi-même et je vais faire tout ce que je peux pour traverser cette "tempête".

Merci beaucoup d'être ici. HIVE est mon petit morceau de bonheur quotidien. Prenez soin de vous et de vos proches. Bonne journée les abeilles !


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flaxz :

Sorry to hear about your problems, and I hope that you can overcome them, take care.

!ALIVE

clarissaaaa :

I feel so bad reading this!! I really hope that you and your parents will be better and healthy as soon as possible. This life is cruel. Please be strong 🫶🏻

sperosamuel15 :

You are indeed going through a lot of pains this period but I am still happy you are giving your best despite this unfavourable situation and I pray God come to your aid

nicklewis :

That’s nasty, life is a minefield at times. I hope you can navigate tour way through them. All the best!

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Mate, more prayers to you for better Days in your life... Life is all about ups and down.. facing problems ain't easy but you Gotta trust and believe this time won't last for long. More power to you!

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Wow, that's a lot to deal with. You are definitely in the thoughts & prayers of those of us in TheTerminal. 💜

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seckorama :

Uffff. That's too bad. Can I help you?

pboulet :

Je suis désolé de lire tout ce qui t'arrive. Bon courage pour surmonter tout ça !

yahuzah :

Really sorry to hear all these. I wish you and your family a speedy recovery. I hope you’re able to overcome these.🙏

arcange :

Parfois la vie est une sale pute! (Raaaah, ça fait du bien de le dire 😂) Je te souhaite bon courage pour te sortir de tous tes déboires et pour que ta santé s'améliore et te permette de souffler un peu. !LUV !BEER

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pravesh0 :

Oh no... all these at once are tough to tackle. So sorry to hear about your problems. Sending you a big virtual hug. #TomorrowistheGoal

!LUV

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You know... sometimes, it's easy to think the whole world is against you. Or its sure feels like it! You seem to have the same luck, my other half and I have. But as long as I have known you. I have learned that you are many things. Develeoper of some pretty darn cool stuff... Have an awesome taste in music... and a wicked cool sense of humor. But you will see I did not say the following...


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ninahaskin :

Prayers for strength and healing, as well as sending !LUV

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Je vous souhaite plein de courage pour affronter tout ce que vous décrivez, ça fait beaucoup pour une seule personne alors je vous envoie tout mon soutien.

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amiableamara :

Some people are really passing through a lot. You have to be strong and in no distance time eveeything will be ok.

itravelrox :

Prayers for you and your loved ones. I experienced this a few years ago struggling with health problems and personal problems. Dealing with problems with my fam, my father got sick, and my mother got sick and gone. Got some financial problems as well. It's ok to be off the grid sometimes. Take care!

jesus-son :

So sorry about the issues confronting you . I understand that these are really problems that can keep someone worried. But you gat to be strong friend. And you have to be close to God too and seek His face upon your situation. You and your family shall be in my personal prayers.

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We feel overwhelmed 😞 when we face many problems at the same time. Hope you can manage all, one step after another trying to trust on life and to be positive. My best wishes for you and a lot of good energy. !LUV

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Sending prayers for healing and provision for your monetary issues. Best wishes for all of your family, too. Reblogged. !ALIVE !LUV

bemier :

By reading this article I have come to one conclusion and that is, you are a fighter who will never give up. Just the fact that I am reading this article right now is perfect proof that you never give up. All my best wishes are with you. I hope you get better and better. Please don't forget, you are the only one of you. 🖤

kingworldline :

Wao... This is really touching, I have to tell you that it all well, the better days is ahead, we move regardless

freecompliments :

I'm just seeing this now. My goodness. There's a saying, "When it rains, it pours." It's certainly pouring down on you right now. You're going through several of life's profound challenges all at the same time - your own illness, your parents' illness, financial woes, and interpersonal woes.

Despite all of this, you continue showing your strength, resilience, and kindness to others. It takes a human being of diamond constitution to do this. For whatever it's worth, if you're ever in need of a shoulder to lean on, I'll be glad to listen. I hope you continue to find the strength to continue pushing through these tough times, so that you may see the brightness of better times ahead.